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Pause (2025)<br />
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By Bijan Amjadian – First Edition, The Netherlands<br />
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Languages: Persian, English, Dutch<br />
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Translated by: Jo Polak & Bijan Amjadian<br />
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This book is a journey into self-discovery and psychology. Pause invites you to stop in the middle of life’s noise, reflect, and reconnect with your true self. Through 100 practical insights, presented in three languages, it shows how trust in yourself and your inner abilities can guide you toward your goals and dreams.<br />
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👉 A guide for those who want to believe in themselves and live with clarity.</p>
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You can follow Mr. Bijan Amjadian's Instagram via "Contact Us" and get acquainted with her latest works and activities.</p>
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🔸 This book is currently only available electronically.</p>
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دوستان فارسی زبان عزیز در سراسر جهان ، این کتاب دارای بیش از ۱۲۰ مطلب کوتاه و موثر روانشناسی و ارتقای سلامت روانی به سه زبان ، فارسی ، انگلیسی و هلندی است ، جهت تهیه این کتاب به صورت الکترونیکی لطفا به جیمیل یا واتساب در قسمت ارتباط با ما پیام ارسال نمایید، <span style="caret-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">me via email or WhatsApp to learn hMessage  فارسی زبان در سراسر جهان، برای تهیه این کتاب، لطفا در قسمت تماس با ما به جیمیل یا واتس اپ پیام دهید.WhatsApp to learn how to obtain this book. I'm waiting for you.Message me via email or WhatsApp to learn how to obtain this book. I'm waiting for you.gmail.com</span></p>

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Beyond Myself<br />
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Publication Year: 2025<br />
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First Edition: Printed in the Netherlands<br />
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Author: Bijan Amjadian<br />
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Translators: Jo Polak & Bijan Amjadian<br />
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Languages: Persian, English, and Dutch<br />
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Beyond Myself narrates the story of my life and real experiences—journeys filled with challenges, growth, and personal discovery. Each chapter offers readers the opportunity to draw inspiration from my path, find their own direction, and move forward with confidence in their abilities. The book is available in three separate editions in Persian, English, and Dutch, providing a multicultural experience accessible to readers across Europe and worldwide.</p>
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Voorbij mij</p>
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Publication Year: 2025<br />
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First Edition: Printed in the Netherlands<br />
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Author: Bijan Amjadian<br />
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Languages: Persian, English, and Dutch</p>
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Beyond Myself vertelt het verhaal van mijn leven en echte ervaringen – reizen vol uitdagingen, groei en persoonlijke ontdekkingen. Elk hoofdstuk biedt lezers de mogelijkheid om inspiratie te putten uit mijn pad, hun eigen richting te vinden en vol vertrouwen vooruit te gaan. Het boek is verkrijgbaar in drie afzonderlijke edities in het Perzisch, Engels en Nederlands, wat een multiculturele ervaring biedt die toegankelijk is voor lezers in heel Europa en wereldwijd.</p>
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🔸 Dit boek is momenteel alleen elektronisch verkrijgbaar.</p>
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Voor informatie over het verkrijgen van het elektronische bestand van dit boek kunt u een bericht sturen via e-mail of WhatsApp.</div>
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Since march 2026 </p>
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By Bijan Amjadian – First edition, Netherlands</div>
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Languages: Persian, English</div>
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Translation: Jo Polak & Bijan Amjadian<br />
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This book is based on the important content of the book Pause, which is presented in three languages in one book. In the book Harmony, important topics that every person faces and challenges throughout their life, such as hope, feelings, desires, etc., are explained in simple language and determine the path of life.</div>
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I hope that by obtaining this book electronically, you can have a better path in life and achieve important life goals.</div>
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To obtain the Harmony book electronically, please send a message to Gmail or WhatsApp in the Contact Us section.</div>
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Apply to obtain this book from March 2026.</div>
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دوستان و خوانندگان محترم کتاب “هارمونی” نوشته جناب اقای بیـــژن امجدیان در ارتباط با مفاهیم مهم زندگی است که روزانه با ان در ارتباط هستیم و ترکیبی از موضوعات فلسفی و روان شناسی است ، جهت تهیه این کتاب لطفا از طریق جیمیل یا واتساب در قسمت ارتباط با ما پیام ارسال نمایید</div>
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جهت تهیه این کتاب از ابتدای ماه مارچ ۲۰۲۶ اقدام نمایید.</div>

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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">استاد بیژن امجدیان»، با بیش از دو دهه تجربه در تدریس، مشاوره و تألیف ده&zwnj;ها کتاب آموزشی و كمك آموزشي پيش از ورود به دانشگاه و دانشگاه در حوزه علوم انسانی، و با داشتن مدرك كارشناسي ارشد مديريت صنايع ( توليد و عمليات ) ، نخستین کتاب تخصصی مدیریتی خود را با عنوان </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">«مدیریت در مه»</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> منتشر کرده&zwnj;اند.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">این اثر نتیجه&zwnj;ی تحقیق میدانی و مشاهده&zwnj;ی ساختارهای مدیریتی در کشورهای پیشرفته و صنعتی  او از سال ٢٠٢٢ است؛ به ويژه در کشورهایی همچون </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">هلند، فرانسه ، آلمان و برخي  نقاط جهان</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> است و نویسنده از سال ٢٠٢٣ در كشور هلند زندگي ، کار و پژوهش کرده و همچنان ادامه دارد</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">کتاب </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">مدیریت در مِه</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> پاسخی است به پرسش&zwnj;های مهم مدیران امروز:</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">چگونه در شرایط ابهام تصمیم بگیریم؟</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">چطور ذهن مدیریتی خود را در بحران حفظ کنیم؟</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">و مدیران موفق چگونه از دل عدم قطعیت، مسیر را پیدا می&zwnj;کنند؟</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">ترجمه انگليسي اين كتاب به زودي اماده مي شود.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">علاقمندان محترم ، جهت تهيه اين كتاب به صورت الكترونيكي (e_book) ،لطفا  از طريق Gmail و يا Watsaap  در قسمت ارتباط با ما ، پيام دهيد .</span></p>

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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">سندروم "هنوز نرسيده ام "</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">نويسنده : بـيــــژن امجديان</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">تاريخ و محل انتشار : ۲۶ ابانماه ١٤٠٤ | هــــلند</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">سندروم «هنوز نرسیده&zwnj;ام»: نادیده گرفتن داشته&zwnj;های فعلی و دام کمال&zwnj;گرایی افراطی و بدونِ مرز </span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">آیا شما هم مدام دستاوردهای خود را نادیده می&zwnj;گیرید؟ با تحلیل فلسفی و مدیریت استرس راهکار شکستن دام کمال&zwnj;گرایی افراطی را بیاموزید. این مقاله از بيژن امجديان (</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Bijan)</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">، نقشه راهی برای رضایت پایدار ارائه می&zwnj;دهد.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">سندروم «هنوز نرسیده&zwnj;ام»: نادیده گرفتن داشته&zwnj;های فعلی و دام کمال&zwnj;گرایی افراطی و بدونِ مرز</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">در عصر سرعت، </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">کمال&zwnj;گرایی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> نه تنها یک ویژگی مثبت، بلکه اغلب یک </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">دام پنهان</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> است. بسیاری از ما، حتی پس از دستیابی به موفقیت&zwnj;های بزرگ – چه در حوزه </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">مدیریت کسب&zwnj;وکار</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">، چه در حوزه&zwnj;ی زندگی شخصی و خانوادگی ، ناگهان متوجه می&zwnj;شویم که احساس </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">رضایت عمیق</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">خوشبختی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> کماکان دور از دسترس است و هميشه در حال دست و پا زدن براي رسيدن به موقعيت بهتري نسبت به قبل هستيم ، اینجاست که با پدیده&zwnj;ای روبرو می&zwnj;شویم که می&zwnj;توان آن را </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">سندروم «هنوز نرسیده&zwnj;ام»</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> ناميد.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">این سندروم، ریشه در یک خطای شناختی رایج دارد: ذهن ما به طور مداوم ارزش دستاوردهای گذشته و حال را مورد بررسي و تحليل قرار مي دهد به طوري كه برخي از آنها را کم&zwnj;اهمیت و يا حتي بي اهميت جلوه می&zwnj;دهد و توجه خود را تنها بر افق&zwnj;های دوردست متمرکز می&zwnj;کند. از منظر </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">روان&zwnj;شناسی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">، این پویایی می&zwnj;تواند منجر به </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">اضطراب مزمن</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">، ( طولاني ) ، </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">فرسودگی شغلی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و در نهایت </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">نادیده گرفتن داشته&zwnj;های فعلی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> شود و از لذت بردن داشته هاي حداقلي ، منع كند . اما پرسش اصلی اینجاست: ریشه&zwnj;های این کمال&zwnj;گرایی افراطی کجاست؟ آیا صرفاً یک ویژگی دروني و شخصيتي است يا يك ويژگي انحصاري و فردي <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>است، یا ساختارهای </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">اجتماعی و اقتصادی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> نیز در دامن زدن به آن نقش دارند؟</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">در این مقاله، من با اتکا به مفاهیم </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">خودشناسی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">روان&zwnj;شناسی کمال&zwnj;گرایی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">، به تحلیل عمیق این سندروم می&zwnj;پردازم. خواهید دید که چگونه این الگو می&zwnj;تواند در موقعیت&zwnj;های حساس زندگی – از </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">تصمیم&zwnj;گیری&zwnj;های مهم مدیریتی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> گرفته تا چالش&zwnj;های </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">سازگاری در محیط جدیدی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> ، به یک عامل بازدارنده ( مخرب - تهديد كننده ) تبدیل شود و در نهايت راهکارهای عملی و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">فلسفی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> برای شکستن این چرخه بی&zwnj;انتها را ارائه خواهم داد.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;"> ۱. ریشه&zwnj;های روان&zwnj;شناختی احساس "نا کافی بودن"</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">احساس دائمی "نا کافی بودن" یا "هنوز نرسیده&zwnj;ام"، علی&zwnj;رغم دستاوردهای عینی، ریشه در لایه&zwnj;های عمیق ساختار روان و طرحواره&zwnj;های ذهنی ما دارد. این سندروم، بیش از آنکه یک نقص عملکردی باشد، یک الگوی فکری اکتسابی ( كسب شده ) است نه الگوي انتسابي ( ژنتيكي ) که با سوخت&zwnj;گیری و جهت گيري از تجربیات دوران کودکی و فشارهای محیطی، به یک </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">تله ذهنی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> تبدیل می&zwnj;شو</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">د و متاثر از ديدگاه زيگموند فرويد است كه معتقد بود ، "حوادث و وقايع دوران كودكي ( ٢-١٢ سالگي ) <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>بر روي دوران بزرگسالي <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>( ٢٠ سالگي به بعد ) تاثير گذار است </span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;"> ۱.۱. از "منِ ایده&zwnj;آل" تا "منِ واقعی": شکاف بینابینی</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">بسیاری از تحلیل&zwnj;گران روان&zwnj;درمانی، این سندروم را حاصل بزرگ شدن شکاف میان </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"منِ ایده&zwnj;آل و آرماني "</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> (آنچه فکر می&zwnj;کنیم باید باشیم) و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"منِ واقعی"</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> (آنچه در حال حاضر هستیم) می&zwnj;دانند.البته <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>اين منِ ايده آل و آرماني در بلندمدت ادامه داشته باشد و فقط با تصور و خيال آن زندگي كنيم ، موجب شكل گيري " خودِ كاذب " مي گردد. يعني شخصيتي كه روان انسان با رفتار او در تضاد و تناقض است .</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">کمال&zwnj;گرایی ناسالم:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> این سندروم یک تفاوت اساسی با کمال&zwnj;گرایی سازنده دارد. در نوع ناسالم، فرد نه تنها به دلیل عدم موفقیت، بلکه به دلیل عدم توانایی در </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">لذت بردن</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">پذیرش</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> موفقیت&zwnj;هایش، دچار عذاب وجدان می&zwnj;شود. این امر با ایجاد یک دایره معیوب، مسیر </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">رضایت درونی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> را مسدود می&zwnj;کند.و عاملي بازدارنده محسوب مي گردد</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">نکته تخصصی:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">کارل راجرز (Carl Rogers)</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> این عدم انطباق را عامل اصلی اضطراب می&zwnj;دانست. هنگامی که ارزش ما به موفقیت&zwnj;های بیرونی گره می&zwnj;خورد، ما از </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">خودپذیری بی&zwnj;قید و شرط</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> فاصله می&zwnj;گیریم و احساس "نرسیدن" دائمی می&zwnj;شود ، به عقیده كارل راجرز ؛ گرایش فطری به خودشکوفا شدن ، هدف اصلی آن خودشکوفایی خود است ، تبدیل شدن به انسانی دیگر که راجرز آن را « انسان کامل » نامید.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">۱.۲. طرحواره&zwnj;های ذهنی و تأثیرات والدینی</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">آموزه&zwnj;های روان&zwnj;شناسی شناختی، نقش تعیین&zwnj;کننده&zwnj;ای برای </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">طرحواره&zwnj;ها (Schemas)</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> قائل هستند. این طرحواره&zwnj;ها که معمولاً در سنین پایین شکل می&zwnj;گیرند، نوعی "قالب فکری" هستند که ما ، جهان و خودمان را از طریق آن&zwnj;ها تفسیر می&zwnj;کنیم.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">طرحواره معیوب بودن/شرم:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> برخی افراد بر اساس بازخوردهای سختگیرانه والدين یا اجتماع <span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>در کودکی، طرحواره&zwnj;ای را درونی می&zwnj;کنند که اساساً "من ناقص هستم و شایسته پذیرش نیستم." در نتیجه، هر دستاورد بزرگی نیز نمی&zwnj;تواند این باور عمیق را تغییر دهد.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">عامل بیرونی شدن ارزش:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> وقتی فرد تنها به دلیل نمرات عالی یا دستاوردهای چشمگیر تحسین شود، این پیام درونی می&zwnj;شود که </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">ارزش من مشروط است.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">۲. دام کمال&zwnj;گرایی افراطی: تحلیلی اگزیستانسیال </span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">هنگامی که احساس </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"هنوز نرسیده&zwnj;ام"</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> به یک الگوی دائمی تبدیل می&zwnj;شود، ما با یک </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">اضطراب وجودی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> روبرو می&zwnj;شویم که ریشه در فلسفه و ساختار جامعه مدرن و امروزي دارد.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;"> ۲.۱. از اراده&zwnj;گرایی تا اضطراب وجودی</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">فلسفه اگزیستانسیالیسم:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> انسان در مواجهه با آزادی و بی&zwnj;معنایی جهان، برای پر کردن این پوچی، به ساختن </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">بُت&zwnj;های موفقیت</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> روی می&zwnj;آورد.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">پوچی در موفقیت:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> فرد کمال&zwnj;گرا به اشتباه گمان می&zwnj;کند که "موفقیت بعدی" می&zwnj;تواند پاسخی برای این پوچی وجودی باشد. وقتی موفقیت حاصل می&zwnj;شود و آن معنای مورد انتظار به دست نمی&zwnj;آید، </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">احساس پوچی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> عمیق&zwnj;تر می&zwnj;شود. این همان دامی است که افراد در تغییرات بزرگ در آن می&zwnj;افتند مانند مهاجرت كردن ، تغيير دائم شغل ثابت ، تغيير بدون انديشه شريك زندگي به بهانه رسيدن به موفقيت هاي بيشتر .</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;"> ۲.۲. جامعه&zwnj;شناسی مقایسه و سرمایه&zwnj;داری توجه</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">جامعه مدرن، بستر اصلی رشد و پرورش این سندروم است. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">جامعه&zwnj;شناسی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> مدرن بر دو عامل اصلی تأکید می&zwnj;کند:</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">فرهنگ «شتاب&zwnj;دهنده»:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> یک سیستم اقتصادی که ارزش فرد را با </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">بهره&zwnj;وری (Productivity)</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> تعیین می&zwnj;کند، ناگزیر منجر به مقایسه دائمی می&zwnj;شود. در این سیستم، </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">آرامش و رضایت</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> نوعی "ناکامی" محسوب می&zwnj;شود.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">شبکه&zwnj;های اجتماعی و سرمایه&zwnj;داری توجه:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> پلتفرم&zwnj;های مجازی، با نمایش گزینشی از موفقیت&zwnj;های دیگران، یک </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">استاندارد غیرواقعی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> از زندگی ایجاد می&zwnj;کنند که باعث می&zwnj;شود فرد دستاوردهای خود را </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">نادیده بگیرد</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و دائماً احساس کند از "رقبای مجازی" عقب افتاده است و نهايت تصور فرد مانند " در باتلاق در جا ميزند " مي شود به طوري كه با ديدن يك تصوير يا فيلم كوتاه در چند ثانيه ، شروع و پايان را تحليل و سپس نسبت به آن در مورد خود ، تصميم گيري و بازبيني مي كند و همچنان به تصورش ، به هدف اصلی نرسیده است.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">٣. فلج تحلیلی و مدیریت استرس: چگونه "هنوز نرسیده&zwnj;ام" عملکرد شغلی را تخریب می&zwnj;کند؟</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">سندروم کمال&zwnj;گرایی افراطی در حوزه </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">مدیریت و کار</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">، خود را به شکل </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">فلج تحلیلی (Analysis Paralysis)</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> نشان می&zwnj;دهد.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;"> ۳.۱. فلج تحلیلی: وقتی تفکر زیاد به ضدعمل تبدیل می&zwnj;شود</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">مدیریت ریسک:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> این الگو بزرگ&zwnj;ترین دشمن </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">نوآوری و چابکی (Agility)</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> است. فرد کمال&zwnj;گرا به جای مدیریت ریسک و پذیرش شکست&zwnj;های کوچک، سعی می&zwnj;کند ریسک را کاملاً از بین ببرد. این باعث تعلل، تأخیر در تصمیم&zwnj;گیری، و از دست دادن فرصت&zwnj;های حیاتی می&zwnj;شود.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">تصمیم&zwnj;گیری:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> این سندروم، سرعت و کیفیت تصمیم&zwnj;گیری را به طور جدی پایین می&zwnj;آورد و فرد را درگیر ریزه&zwnj;کاری&zwnj;های جزئی می&zwnj;کند.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;"> ۳.۲. مدیریت استرس و فرسودگی شغلی در مسیر ناکامی ذهنی</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">اقتصاد زمان و انرژی:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> کمال&zwnj;گراها زمان و انرژی خود را بر روی ارتقاء ۲۰٪ انتهایی کیفیت یک کار (از ۸۰٪ خوب به ۱۰۰٪ بی&zwnj;نقص) صرف می&zwnj;کنند. این عدم تخصیص بهینه منابع مغایر با اصول </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">اقتصاد خرد</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">بهره&zwnj;وری</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> است.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">فرسودگی (Burnout):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> فشار دائمی برای "بهتر بودن از آنچه هستم" سطح بالایی از </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">استرس مدیریت نشده</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> ایجاد می&zwnj;کند که به سرعت منجر به فرسودگی شغلی می&zwnj;شود.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">٤. شکستن چرخه: راهکارهای عملی و خودشناسی برای رسیدن به رضایت پایدار</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">کلید، ابداع یک چارچوب فکری است که به ما اجازه دهد از کمال&zwnj;گرایی افراطی عبور کرده و رضایت را در دستاوردهای خود بیابیم.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;"> ۴.۱. تعریف مجدد "کافی بودن": گسستن از ارزش&zwnj;گذاری بیرونی</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">مهندسی معکوس هدف (Reverse Goal Setting):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> تمرین </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">خودشناسی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> بر دستاوردهای واقعی و شایستگی&zwnj;های اثبات&zwnj;شده تمرکز می&zwnj;کند تا ذهن از کمبودهای فرضی رها شود.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">پذیرش نقص آگاهانه (Conscious Imperfection):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> بر اساس اصول </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">منطق عملی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">، آگاهانه حد مطلوب (مثلاً ۹۰٪) را تعیین کنید و در آن نقطه متوقف شوید. این کار به </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">مدیریت زمان</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> شما کمک می&zwnj;کند.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;"> ۴.۲. تمرین ذهن&zwnj;آگاهی در موفقیت و ارزیابی عقلانی</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">لذت بَردای آگاهانه (Mindful Celebration):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> به طور فعال زمان&zwnj;هایی را برای "تجلیل از موفقیت&zwnj;های کوچک" در نظر بگیرید.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">قانون سه سؤال سقراطی:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> هنگامی که فکر "هنوز نرسیده&zwnj;ام" به ذهن هجوم می&zwnj;آورد، از دانش </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">فلسفه و منطق</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> خود برای به چالش کشیدن آن استفاده کنید: </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">دلیل؟</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">، </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">پیامد؟</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">، و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">جایگزین؟</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;"> ۴.۳. بازآفرینی "منِ ایده&zwnj;آل" بر اساس ارزش&zwnj;های اصلی</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">تمرکز بر ارزش&zwnj;های اصلی:</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> معیار سنجش موفقیت را از "چقدر ثروت جمع کرده&zwnj;ام؟" به </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"چقدر در جهت ارزش&zwnj;هایم عمل کرده&zwnj;ام؟"</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> تغییر دهید. این تغییر، کلید </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">رضایت پایدار</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">خودشناسی عمیق</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> است.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">مقایسه با "منِ دیروز":</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> تنها مقایسه سازنده، مقایسه عملکرد امروز شما با عملکرد دیروز شماست تا انگیزه رشد شخصی تقویت شود.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">سندروم هنوز نرسیده&zwnj;ام: از دام کمال&zwnj;گرایی تا آزادی عمل</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">سندروم </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"هنوز نرسیده&zwnj;ام"</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> نه یک ضعف شخصیتی، بلکه یک الگوی فکری عمیق است که از ترکیب فشارهای اجتماعی، طرحواره&zwnj;های روان&zwnj;شناختی و اضطراب وجودی نشأت می&zwnj;گیرد. کلید آزادی، نه در تلاش بیشتر برای رسیدن به بی&zwnj;نقصی، بلکه در </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">پذیرش آگاهانه نقص&zwnj;ها</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و تعریف مجدد موفقیت بر اساس </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">ارزش&zwnj;های اصلی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">خودشناسی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> نهفته است. از امروز، به جای دویدن در مسیر بی&zwnj;انتهای کمال&zwnj;گرایی، با </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">منطق</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">ذهن&zwnj;آگاهی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> در داشته&zwnj;های فعلی خود زندگی کنید.در لحظه باشيد ، قدم هر لحظه ها را با برنامه به پيش ببريد ، نتيجه ي هر عملي رادر لحظه لمس كنيد </span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">اگر به دنبال راهکارهای عملی برای چارچوب&zwnj;دهی به زندگی و مدیریت استرس ناشی از رقابت و تغییر هستید، </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">کتاب&zwnj;های تخصصی Bijan</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> در حوزه&zwnj;های </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">خودشناسی، روان&zwnj;شناسی و مدیریت</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> را مطالعه کنید.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">متفکران و نظریه&zwnj;های روان&zwnj;شناختی:</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">1. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">راجرز، کارل (Carl Rogers):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> نظریه </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">خودپذیری</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">درمان مراجعه&zwnj;محور</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">2. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">فروید، زیگموند (Sigmund Freud):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> نظریه&zwnj;های مربوط به </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">طرحواره&zwnj;ها</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">ساختار روان</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">3. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">آدلر، آلفرد (Alfred Adler):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> مفهوم </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">عقده حقارت</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">تلاش برای برتری</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">4. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">یانگ، جفری ای. (Jeffrey Young):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> اصول </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">طرحواره درمانی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">طرحواره&zwnj;های عیب و نقص/شرم</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">1. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">کامو، آلبر (Albert Camus):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> مفهوم </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">پوچی (Absurdism)</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">اضطراب وجودی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">2. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">سارتر، ژان-پل (Jean-Paul Sartre):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> مفهوم </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">آزادی مسئولیت&zwnj;پذیر</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">فرار از مسئولیت</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">3. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">ارسطو (Aristotle):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> مفهوم </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">سعادت انسانی (Eudaimonia)</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">مفاهیم مدیریت، بهره&zwnj;وری و شناختی:</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">1. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">قانون پارتو (Pareto Principle):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> یا </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">قانون ۸۰/۲۰</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">2. </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">کانمن و تورسکی (Kahneman & Tversky):</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> نظریه </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">خطای شناختی</span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> و </span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">نظریه چشم&zwnj;انداز (Prospect Theory)</span></p>
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مقاله ی ؛ سَندروم “ هنــــوز نرسیده ام “

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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Author:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Bijan Amjadian</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 17px; font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Date and place of Publication:</span><span class="s2" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 17px; font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> November 18, 2025 the Netherlands</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">Do you constantly </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">ignore your </span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">accomplishments</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">? Learn how to break the trap of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">extreme perfectionism</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> through philosophical analysis and stress management. This article by </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Bijan Amjadian (Bijan)</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> offers a </span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">roadmap to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">lasting satisfaction</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">In the age of speed, </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">perfectionism</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> is not only seen as a positive trait but is often a </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">hidden trap</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. Many of us, even after achieving </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">significant success</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">—whether in business management or in personal and family life—suddenly realize that a deep sense of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">contentment</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">happiness</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> remains </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">elusive</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. We are constantly </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">striving for a better position</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> than the one we currently hold. This is where we encounter a phenomenon that can be termed </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">The "Haven't Arrived Yet" Syndrome</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">This syndrome is rooted in a common </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">cognitive error</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">: our minds constantly analyze and evaluate the value of past and present achievements, often </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">dismissing them</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> as insignificant or even worthless, focusing solely on distant horizons. From a psychological perspective, this dynamic can lead to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">chronic anxiety</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">, </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">burnout</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">, and ultimately, the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">neglect of current assets</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. But the main question is: Where do the roots of this </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">extreme perfectionism</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> lie? Is it merely an innate, personal characteristic, or do </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">social and economic structures</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> also play a role in fueling it?</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">In this article, I delve into a </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">deep analysis</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> of this syndrome, drawing upon the concepts of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Self-Knowledge</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Psychology of Perfectionism</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. You will see how this pattern can become a </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">destructive and threatening barrier</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> in sensitive life situations. Finally, I will provide </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">practical and philosophical solutions</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> to break this </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">endless cycle</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">1. The Psychological Roots of the Feeling of "Insufficiency"</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">The persistent feeling of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"insufficiency"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> or </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"not having arrived yet,"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> despite objective accomplishments, is rooted in the deep layers of our </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">psychic structure</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">cognitive schemas</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. This syndrome is more than a functional defect; it is an </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">acquired (learned) thought pattern</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">, not an inherent (genetic) one, that is fueled and directed by </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">childhood experiences</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">environmental pressures</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. This is influenced by the viewpoint of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Sigmund Freud</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">, who believed that "events and occurrences in childhood... impact adulthood."</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">1.1. From the "Ideal Self" to the "Real Self": The Intermediary Gap</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">Many psychotherapy analysts believe this syndrome is the result of the widening gap between the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"Ideal Self"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> (what we think we should be) and the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"Real Self"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> (what we currently are). Sustaining this ideal self over the long term, and only living through its imagination, leads to the formation of a </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"False Self"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Unhealthy Perfectionism:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> This type suffers from an </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">inability to enjoy and accept their own achievements</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. This creates a </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">vicious cycle</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> that blocks the path to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">inner contentment</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Expert Note:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Carl Rogers</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> considered this </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">incongruence</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> to be the main source of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">anxiety</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. He argued the innate drive towards </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Self-Actualization</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> is primarily aimed at </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Self-Fulfillment</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">—becoming a "Fully Functioning Person."</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">1.2. Cognitive Schemas and Parental Influences</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">Cognitive psychology teaches that </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Schemas</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> play a decisive role. These blueprints, formed in early childhood, are </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"thought templates"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> through which we interpret the world and ourselves.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Defectiveness/Shame Schema:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Individuals internalize a schema that essentially says, </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"I am flawed and unworthy of acceptance."</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Consequently, no great achievement can fundamentally alter this deep-seated belief.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Externalization of Value:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> When an individual is only praised for high accomplishments, the message internalized is that </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"my worth is conditional."</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">2. The Trap of Extreme Perfectionism: An Existential Analysis of Emptiness in Success</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">When the feeling of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"I haven't arrived yet"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> turns into a permanent pattern, we face an </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">existential anxiety</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> rooted in the philosophy and structure of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">modern society</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">2.1. From Voluntarism to Existential Anxiety</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Existentialist Philosophy:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Humans resort to building </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">idols of success</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> to fill the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">void</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">encountered in the face of freedom and the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">meaninglessness of the world</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Emptiness in Success:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> The perfectionist mistakenly believes that the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"next success"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> can be the answer to this </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">existential void</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. When success is achieved, and the expected meaning is not found, the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">feeling of emptiness deepens</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. This is the trap people fall into during major life changes.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">2.2. The Sociology of Comparison and the Attention Economy</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">Modern society is the main breeding ground for this syndrome, emphasizing:</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">The "Acceleration Culture":</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> An economic system that defines an individual's worth by </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Productivity</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> inevitably leads to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">constant comparison</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. In this system, </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">peace and contentment</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">are considered a form of "failure."</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Social Networks and the Attention Economy:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Virtual platforms create an </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">unrealistic standard of living</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">, causing individuals to dismiss their own achievements and constantly feel they are </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">lagging behind "virtual competitors."</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> The result is the perception of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"treading water in a swamp."</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">3. Analysis Paralysis and Stress </span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Management: How "I Haven't Arrived Yet" Destroys Career Performance</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">The syndrome of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">extreme perfectionism</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> in the field of management manifests itself as </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Analysis Paralysis</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">3.1. Analysis Paralysis: When Overthinking Becomes Counter-Productive</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Risk Management:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> This pattern is the greatest enemy of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Innovation</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Agility</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. The perfectionist tries to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">eliminate risk entirely</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> instead of managing it. This leads to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">procrastination, delayed decision-making</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">, and the loss of critical opportunities.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Decision-Making:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> This syndrome severely lowers the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">speed and quality of decision-making</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">, trapping the individual in minor details.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">3.2. Stress Management and Burnout in the Path of Mental Failure</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Economics of Time and Energy:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Perfectionists spend their resources on improving the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">final 20%</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> of a task's quality (from 80% good to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">100% perfect</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">). This sub-optimal allocation contradicts the principles of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Microeconomics</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Productivity</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Burnout:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> The constant pressure to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"be better than I am"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> creates a high level of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">unmanaged stress</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> that rapidly leads to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">occupational burnout</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">4. Breaking the Cycle: Practical Solutions and Self-Knowledge for Lasting Contentment</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">The key is to move beyond </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">extreme perfectionism</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and find contentment in our actual achievements.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">4.1. Redefining "Enough": Detaching from External Valuation</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Reverse Goal Setting:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Focuses on </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">real, proven achievements</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and competencies, freeing the mind from hypothetical shortcomings.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Conscious Imperfection:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Based on the principles of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Practical Logic</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">, consciously set the desired limit (e.g., </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">90%</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">) and stop at that point. This aids your </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Time Management</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">4.2. Practicing Mindfulness in Success and Rational Evaluation</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Mindful Celebration:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Actively dedicate time to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"celebrate small successes."</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">The Socratic Three-Question Rule:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Use philosophy and logic to challenge the thought </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"I haven't arrived yet":</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Reason? Consequence? and Alternative?</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">4.3. Recreating the "Ideal Self" Based on Core Values</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Focus on Core Values:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Shift the metric of success from "How much wealth have I accumulated?" to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"How much have I acted in alignment with my values?"</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> This change is the key to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">lasting contentment</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">deep self-knowledge</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">• </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Comparison with "Yesterday's Self":</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> The only constructive comparison is today's performance versus yesterday's performance.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Conclusion: The "Haven't Arrived Yet" Syndrome: From the Trap of Perfectionism to Freedom of Action</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">The </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">"Haven't Arrived Yet" Syndrome</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> is not a personality flaw, but a </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">deep-seated thought pattern</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">arising from the combination of social pressures, </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">psychological schemas</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">, and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">existential anxiety</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. The key to freedom lies in the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">conscious acceptance of imperfections</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and the redefinition of success based on </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">core values</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">self-knowledge</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">. Live in the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">present moment</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> with </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">logic</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">mindfulness</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> regarding your current assets.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">References:</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Psychological Thinkers and Theories:</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">1. </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Rogers, Carl:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Theory of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Self-Acceptance</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Client-Centered Therapy</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">2. </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Freud, Sigmund:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Theories related to </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Schemas</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Psychic Structure</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">3. </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Adler, Alfred:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Concept of the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Inferiority Complex</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Striving for Superiority</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">4. </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Young, Jeffrey E.:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Principles of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Schema Therapy</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Defectiveness/Shame Schemas</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Philosophical and Existential Thinkers and Concepts:</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">5. </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Camus, Albert:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Concept of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Absurdism</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Existential Anxiety</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">6. </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Sartre, Jean-Paul:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Concept of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Responsible Freedom</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Escape from Responsibility</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">7. </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Aristotle:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Concept of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Eudaimonia (Human Flourishing)</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Management, Productivity, and Cognitive Concepts:</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">8. </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Pareto Principle:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Or the </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">80/20 Rule</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>
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<span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">9. </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Kahneman & Tversky:</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> Theory of </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Cognitive Bias</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;"> and </span><span class="s1" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleEmphasizedBody; font-weight: bold;">Prospect Theory</span><span class="s2" style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody;">.</span></p>

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